I am so TIRED of LITTLE BOYS
I get so tired of little boys.Which is one of the MAIN reasons I have decided to only date men. It's funny April/May of 2006 I was saying I wanted a boyfriend that was my own age......I had been pursued by two grown men, one 35 and the other 28. I was sick and tired of them trying to woo me and try to become my man. Don't get me wrong its nice to have someone take you out and treat you like a queen....I love the attention.
I mean what woman doesn't??
But I was 20 years old and I didn't want a boyfriend whom had a daughter older than me nor did I want to be known as " the home wrecker" because the other guy was just coming out of a 5 year relationship/engagement.
That idea of older men did not last long once I met my best friend. We dated for a long little while but we decided it was best to lose the title and remain friends. I am glad to have had that experience in my life. My first "real" relationship, what we shared, most wish they had.
Ok the tired of little boys line.....................
Last summer I was feeling generous. Now we all now I am a poe college student, working three part-time jobs so I can have pocket change and money to buy what I want. Anyway
One evening I received a text message from this boy who is a couple years younger than me. I have not ever had any relations with him but I was feeling generous and knew God would bless me in return 10 folds. Which HE has.
Well he asked "to borrow" some money to pay his phone bill because him and his mom was going through a rough patch and he needed to keep his phone on. So I lend him the money and figured he would pay me back when he could.....possibly in a month or so.
Crazy thing number 1 I was going on vacation the next day so I really needed my little money. Number 2 months passed and no money, no communication. It was bad enough he and I did not talk before anyhow. Number 3 I send him a message on facebook, this is how it went:
This is not gonna even sound right. I do not mean to come off as a nag but when you asked to borrow money from me my definition that I know means lend and it will be returned in full. Its one thing that you asked me of all people considering the fact that we do not even associate. It was all good though, I was happy that I was able at that time to be a blessing to you in your time of need. We both know months have passed. I just want my money back if you are not able to pay at this time that's fine but do not disregard the issue as if it does not exist. We are both starving college students. I know money does not grow on trees meaning I do not have it to give freely to people who ask. So with that said you already know whats up.
His response: yuh i got u..
Typical for a boy to say.
Anyway that was in December 2006. January 2007 he sent me a message saying he was coming into some money and would pay me back. Its end of April...no communication and no money. Ha boys.
Well I guess I have learned my lesson. I'm not gonna disclose the amount of money because most of you would think I'm being silly but its the principle that's all. Had we been "best buds", "roll dawgs", or even "my ace g boom dawg"....there would not be an issue and I would have dropped it after a month of no payment. But in this case....he and I were none of the above.
So with all that said....little boys keep stepping because I am not the ONE!
posted by A Rare Commodity @ 4/26/2007 11:34:00 AM
2 Comments:
So 28 is old? Damn. My bad. Glad you are over it though.
At that time 28 was too old for me. I was not feeling older men. Yea things have changed. Your not 28 anyway, why you ask?
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